Manual payment method - order gets paid status

I added 2 payment methods. One with a payment provider and one for manual payments.
But when i look in the dashboard the order is automatically set to ‘paid’.
Is there a way to create the order with status ‘unpaid’, but only for the manual payment option offcourse.

And second question is there then an option to change the order to ‘paid’ in the dashboard.
So it can follow the normal flow of statusses.